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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There was exactly 0 chance I was going to have a good holiday given I lost my pregnancy just before and under went surgical removal. We were supposed to announce it at Christmas and were having a boy. I got 2 people specifically calling us out for when will be trying for husband Jr? Then my MIL was really rude to me during Christmas dinner for some unknown reason. But like I said, I didn't expect a great holiday.[/quote] NP here. I'm really sorry. Today is my birthday. The first time I got pregnant (after years of trying, IUI, and then IVF), my due date was my birthday. I eventually lost the pregnancy and had to have a D&C. I still remember that birthday, right after Christmas, when I was still trying unsuccessfully. We had so many people asking about why didn't we have kids etc. My sister does wish ornaments. It broke my heart to read mine from the previous year, wishing for a baby, for years in a row. Be kind to yourself. It's a form of grief no one talks about...but your grief is real.[/quote]
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