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[quote=Anonymous]My parents have invited my in-laws to come stay at their vacation home (where we typically spend Thanksgiving) several times. In-laws always politely decline, even if they don’t have other plans. They just like their own space (multiple families in one vacation house aren’t their thing) and also don’t like feeling like a formal guest. My mom is known for not wanting to stray from this perfect vision she has in her head and ends up pissing off extended family and other guests. Do not be the mom who makes their child choose between their spouse and their mom- because spouse is #1 now. He may not yet understand that he and his wife will need to set boundaries with you, but I suggest you help him by backing off now. You will complicate his marriage and put your relationship with him in jeopardy. FWIW, I am not speaking to my own mother now because of cr@p like this. [/quote]
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