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[quote=Anonymous]Some do, some don't. Something I heard the other day is that men are socialized to not like women. They are actually socialized to feel a measure of contempt toward us and "feminine" attributes. They are taught that they should aspire to be the exact opposite of us. Women are shorter? The ideal man is tall. Women are in tune with their emotions? The ideal man would never cry. Women like to make their surroundings beautiful? The ideal man is happy to live in an apartment with no pictures on the wall. Women are nurturing? The ideal job for a man are those involving lots of power and no caretaking. Women need a loving context to enjoy physical intimacy? The ideal man has lots of one night stands. Man up, don't be a pussy, don't throw like a girl, etc. etc. etc. So for men who are wrapped up in these ideas, women are not people but just a foil to make their manhood look stronger. [/quote]
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