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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As the parent of a child that behaves like this I can tell you that he’s been in therapy for years.  Yes he has mental illnesses.  He is medicated and has been inpatient numerous times—the first when he was 6.

As a  family, we’ve been dealing with this for a long time.  What you heard was jarring to you because you’ve never heard it before.  As a someone that lives with this day in and day out, I know when my son is saying out of control things with intent and when he is just looking for attention.  His siblings also know.

The behavior wasn’t impacting you.  As others have said, you don’t have to invite the kid over for a playdate.  And to the poster that commented about raising a sociopath—you have no idea.  The mental health crisis in this country is horrific.  I’m in support groups with parents that have kids sitting in ERs for WEEKS.  The hospitals are trying to discharge the kids to the parents and the parents are saying they won’t take them home; that they need help.  The public doesn’t see all the help that parents try to get for their children only to find that help is not available.

OP—no it’s not NT behavior.  I hope you never have to experience the judgement of someone like you as you do your best to parent the kid you have.  May your family never have to deal with mental health issues.[/quote]

For some kids its mental illness, some kids its parenting.  The difference is you got your child help and these parents are ignoring it.  If your kids behave like that in public, you don't take them out.[/quote]

I would disagree with that.  What you’re advocating is that people who are different shouldn’t be seen in public.  That’s pretty old school thinking.  As a society, we need to be accepting of all types of people.  If they aren’t hurting your family, let them be.[/quote]

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