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[quote=Anonymous]When I discovered by ex-wife was cheating, I had to work hard to find out where his wife was. Because he was a freelance graphic designer who worked out of his home, his home address was actually on his business web site. So, I wrote a very factual letter to her since I could not find out any other way to contact her on e-mail, social media, phone number, etc. I started my letter by telling her I agonized over whether or not I should send it but ultimately decided if it were me that I would want to know, so I did. In about two pages, I described, factually, what I knew based on the work of my PI. I told her I would share evidence with her if she wanted to see it. I sent the letter registered mail that required signature by her and only her (yes, you can do this -- I forget what it is called) to avoid it being intercepted. In the letter, I asked her to call me so that I knew it had been received and said I would be happy to answer any questions. I waited until my separation agreement was filed with the court before sending it. She did call me and asked a couple of questions. We spoke one other time. That was it. I do not know what became of them, nor do I care. [/quote]
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