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Reply to "35 year old brother snaps at mom "I've hated you since I was 13""
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[quote=Anonymous]Some 70 year old are close to senile, it certainly not all. OP please acknowledge your brother’s pain. Please let him know you hear it, likely the reason he lashed out is he feels unheard. Encourage him to get counseling, your mother may not be willing to change and he shouldn’t wait for that as it may never happen. Will say his learning to set good boundaries with people who treat him less than, via going to counseling will help him. The question to OP is will she help him or as others have said gaslight his experiences ( that may well be hers but she chooses to suppress). Let me add good boundaries can encourage others to change and your mother can be held accountable and change, if she is willing, even though she is 70. [/quote]
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