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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My mom also taught me not to let a man take me out and pay for me, if I am not really interested. So men should be happy to pay for dates - it is a subtle sign the woman is attracted

Feminism, independence will play when you move in together and split serious purchases and share chores. Nobody wins from being cheap at dates. [/quote]

That makes no sense. A man pays for dates to show the woman he is a provider/has resources. In the marriage there will be no expectation that a woman would contribute financially or that the man does chores. The man is not dating the woman because she makes money, has a good job or has a financial upside. [/quote]

[b]No, the man pays to show HE can contribute equally and not cheap. [/b]I live in a good house, go to nice restaurants with my girlfriends and a cheap man who “reconciles” the receipts won’t fit in my lifestyle. 
When I dated my husband, he paid for dates but our first trip abroad together was split. We contribute equally in the household but he always takes out his wallet when we go out as family [/quote]

If a guy doesn't pay the first few dates he's not that in to you - move on. [/quote]

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