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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You all are describing amateur night.

Every Authentic Cheater knows that you never, never, never put down your spouse in words or writing to your AP, whom you describe as perfect in every way but one, which happens to be exactly your AP's unique gift.

You never say the three magic words to the AP but you are always loving in your actions.

You never give the AP better gifts than your spouse.

You never refuse emotional support or sex or participation in household projects to your spouse once you have begun to be physically intimate with your AP.

You never choose time with the AP over time with family events or holidays or activities with your kids.

Rancor and neglect ruin marriages, not affairs.[/quote]

Good lord, now I’ve seen everything - the white knight benevolent cheater.  You are a good man, a clever man. Your wife, your kids and your AP(s) are so fortunate to have a thoughtful and kind man like you in their lives.

So to answer OP’s question:  a common theme of cheaters seems to be delusional thinking and a desire to live in a fantasy land of one’s own creation rather than in the boring real world and being fully present for those in it.  [/quote]

LOL I was thinking the same thing. He can manage his wife/marriage/kids/work/AP all so perfectly.  Isn’t he just perfect? /s

I’m thinking do these people have critical thinking skills or any emotional awareness?  It’s either pure selfishness or he’s just truly clueless.  Not sure which.[/quote]

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