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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It is part mostly internal motivation.  But there are some things that may be helpful, or not, I don't know.  But I am very average.  I do have a great work ethic and am highly motivated, but I grew up with parents that were hyper-involved in their own needs and their divorces (and re-marriages).  I do believe, with my DH, we have helped our kids do well so far.  We have 3 kids and they are all high achievers and advanced in academics and the sports they do.

-Model the behaviors you want to see in them.  Read often, both to them and to yourself so they see you reading frequently.

-Always always make school/learning the priority.  Even when they don't have homework and on weekends, give them small assignments to keep their mind engaged and learning.

-Discuss things at meals.  When I'm just not feeling up to talking, I turn on NPR's daily news hour and we listen (it is only a couple of minutes) then talk about what we heard

-Make them make their beds daily and clean their rooms weekly.  Insist on it.

-Take them to museums, do music lessons, enroll in one sport each for them to focus on

-[b]Stay away from dance, cheer, football, gymnastics.  
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-Steer them toward friendship with peers that are hard working and high achieving.

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Some these are obvious but can you elaborate on them a bit? I mostly agree but can't fully articulate it myself so wondering you could.[/quote]

There are very few activities that lead to discipline and high achievement like gymnastics, so whoever thinks it's smart to steer kids away is clearly not very bright.[/quote]

LOL gymnastics. What do you do after that, teach PE?[/quote]

What an absurd argument. What do kids do with any of the childhood activities they pursue? Or are you one of those parents who is absolutely convinced little Larla is destined to be first chair at the New York Philharmonic? Childhood activities instill discipline and tenacity in children, the point is not to serve as training for their careers. [/quote]

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