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[quote=Anonymous]When you are being emotionally abused, sometimes you are so used to it that it doesn’t seem THAT bad.  Believe me, OP…you are the frog who has been boiling in this water the whole time.  The rest of us are new to it and we k or it’s boiling…that’s why we’re all saying jump.  You’re too used to it to see how awful it is.

Would you even have a 2nd date with a guy who hurt your dog?  Who betrayed you for a full 20 minutes?

No you would not.  You would run.

Do t eBay yourself up about not jumping ship earlier.  This is what abusers do…he gradually warmed up the water over time.  He has beat you down.  But he has not beaten you.

Please don’t wait until Dec 8 or expect him to change.  You have all the information you need, already.  What could he possibly say or do to stop being a man who would hurt a small dog on purpose, just to needle you?  Just to show that he can?  This is not something fixable in therapy.

Make sure you have your own financial accounts and start transferring your 50% if the money, now.  Sock away as much as you can in gift cards when you go shopping over the next week.  Make sure you have a place to stay.  Contact an attorney, and have Dec 8 he the day you tell him you are filing papers.[/quote]

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