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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My DH is this. UMC, he has some inherited family $$$ that is coming. He’s an engaged father, has a good job, 6’3” etc. Here’s my take, if the guys falling into this category aren’t complete tools, they’re totally off the market by the time they’re 30. We started dating when he was 26 and I was 34. All of his similar friends that are decent looking were already in relationships when we met or in serious relationships that led to marriage within two months of me meeting him. I’m now 35, and he’s almost 38. His only single friend left is lazy, short, gotten overweight, and not good looking. [/quote]

Yep. They’re all taken by now. [/quote]

OP, are you open to divorced or dads?

Guys in their 30s are taken. The few good catches have their pick.

A woman in her early-mid 20s has a huge dating pool. Your best chance at finding a mate would have been in college, grad school, right out of college.

A single man with a high income and decent looks now had a huge dating pool. He can date anyone so you have to stand out to attract him. [/quote]

Really bad advice. It is so much more difficult and complicated to start a family with a divorced dad with kids of his own. Op would be much better off broadening her search to include, say, a guy whi doesn’t have a graduate degree, or is making less than a GS-15, or a short guy, versus going for a guy in his 40s with a couple kids paying alimony to an ex and dealing with all of the baggage from his first marriage.  
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