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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Trust your gut OP; it’s triggered for a reason. Your gut feelings plus his time away, the little lies, all speak to something nefarious going on. I’ve been in your shoes and had friends reason my boyfriend’s actions away (I was paranoid, the pandemic, etc) and discovered a week later he had been cheating throughout our relationship. He even lied about it once he got caught! These feelings don’t come from nowhere, most likely your husband is being unfaithful and I’m sorry. What you do is ask questions, observe his responses for anger,  deflection, etc. The truth will come to light and you most likely won’t need to secretly surveil him to discover it (though it helps.) [/quote]

Agree.  And friends will say 'oh, he'd never do that' or 'it's just your mind playing tricks'.  They will comfort you which isn't really the kind of help you need.

If your gut is telling you something is off,[b] it is invariably correct the vast majority of time[/b].  Nothing bad can come from following up and observing closely--unless you prefer to keep your head in the sand.  If it were me, the sooner I found out the better vs a year or more later.[/quote]

Citation needed.

The idea that you would spy on a spouse, including tracking cars and setting up recorders, based on nothing other than a hunch, is so outrageous. I would divorce my spouse if they did that.[/quote]

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