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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My ex-AP was very in love with his wife.  I was incredibly jealous. [/quote]

That is so messed up. I was in love with my AP but if I knew he was in love with his wife I would not have been attracted to him. What he did to her was awful. But I think she was in love with him too.[/quote]

It was messed up.  I told him not to show photos and we stopped ever talking about his family.  I was not happy in my marriage and he had by all appearances perfect wife and kids and a rich family/social life.  I talked to my therapist and it was a case of “I want what she has.”  He never once said a bad word about her, that’s what should have tipped me off he had no plans to ever divorce.  I wasted a lot of time.[/quote]

NP I am in this exact same situation. But I don't necessarily want what she has because, well, she has a husband that's cheating on her. I don't even know if I would want to be with him if he weren't married - too many issues, depressive, etc. But I have issues too. SO its like we've found comfort or companionship in each other but I'm not naive about what the reality of our situation is or have any delusions that this story is going to have some happily ever after ending. [b]I am 100% going to divorce as soon as I can but I know he never will and I don't expect him to.[/b] Why, so he can be cheating on me too?[/quote]

OMG. You are that woman.  He is a cheater, but you are not EVEN THOUGH YOU ARE FRICKIN' MARRIED TOO.  HA.

I didn't say I wasn't - but my marriage basically exists on paper only at this point and my husband has told me I could discreetly date other people if I wanted to.

Another exhibit of: women want exit affairs and men just want free sex on the side.[/quote][/quote]

I didn't say I wasn't - but my marriage basically exists on paper only at this point and my husband has told me I could discreetly date other people if I wanted to.

(sorry for repeat post)[/quote]

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