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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My ex-AP was very in love with his wife.  I was incredibly jealous. [/quote]

That is so messed up. I was in love with my AP but if I knew he was in love with his wife I would not have been attracted to him. What he did to her was awful. But I think she was in love with him too.[/quote]

It was messed up.  I told him not to show photos and we stopped ever talking about his family.  I was not happy in my marriage and he had by all appearances perfect wife and kids and a rich family/social life.  I talked to my therapist and it was a case of “I want what she has.”  He never once said a bad word about her, that’s what should have tipped me off he had no plans to ever divorce.  I wasted a lot of time.[/quote]

NP I am in this exact same situation. But I don't necessarily want what she has because, well, she has a husband that's cheating on her. I don't even know if I would want to be with him if he weren't married - too many issues, depressive, etc. But I have issues too. SO its like we've found [b]comfort or companionship[/b] in each other but I'm not naive about what the reality of our situation is or have any delusions that this story is going to have some happily ever after ending. I am 100% going to divorce as soon as I can but I know he never will and I don't expect him to. Why, so he can be cheating on me too?[/quote]
Seems more like co-dependency?[/quote]

Yes this is really it.

And I am not in a competition with his wife, I don't even think about her. I am have my own sh*t to worry about.  [/quote]

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