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[quote=Anonymous]This is not about the boat or whether you can afford it. It has everything to do with his attitude towards you.  If his latest comments aren’t enough to make it clear that he doesn’t care about you at all, nothing ever will. DIVORCE. Seriously, I don’t see why on earth you are still in this relationship! No sex, no kids, he is a total jerk to you at every turn, and you want to live the rest of your life this way??

My ILs have a similar unhealthy dynamic. My MIL is STILL working in her mid 70s to finance my FIL’s projects. Projects she does not enjoy or get any benefit from. He retired more than a decade ago and has a pension, but they still need her income to pay for their lifestyle. Or should I say his lifestyle. But he is a whole lot nicer to her and they love to travel together and have kids and grandkids, so she has made peace with the situation. Plus she loves her job.

Do you think he is going to wake up tomorrow and decide to put your wants and needs on the same level as his own? Not a chance. So separate now while you still have enough time to save for your own retirement. 51 is not old!! You have decades left to meet someone and spend your time and money doing things you enjoy. [/quote]

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