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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have crushes, and I find I usually fantasize about one in particular at a time, until that one fades, then a new one starts. These crushes have become more intense since my wife and I stopped having a regular sex life. I acted on it with one and it became very messy so I am more careful now.[/quote]

Messy how?[/quote]

Messy because when we finally had sex it was amazing, you forget how great life is with regular sex. She ended up falling for me, and it eventually turned ugly with her making more demands of my time and getting very angry when I had to leave. Our last meeting ended badly and we aren't in touch. Which is a shame because we were friends before. I wouldn't do it again with someone who is single (she was recently divorced).[/quote]\

NP. That wasn't a crush like the OP is asking about. It was a full-on affair (yes, even if you only had sex a few times). Started as a crush but you're perfectly illustrating how crush crosses into affair.

It's very telling that you say you "wouldn't do it again with someone who is single," implying you would do it again with someone who is married or in a relationship. Someone who has something to lose by going after you and something to gain by keeping it secret. Just go ahead and divorce; you can be the single one then. No idea why people stay in marriages when they really want to sleep with other people. Please don't parrot the "for the kids!" stuff either. [/quote]

Its for the kids and finances, which benefits the kids. Why does that explanation bug you?[/quote]

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