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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Thank you all again for the advice and for the amazing cocktail from DCUM bartender! For those offering advice specific to sailboats: my husband is a lifelong sailor and has always had one. He just has his heart set on upgrading to really a much larger one with three cabins etc. And yes, they are that expensive even used, and he knows they don’t hold their value. We’d finance it— it would be a large monthly payment of about $3k plus of course slip fees, maintenance etc.
It’s not even about the boat for me so much as it is about the disregard for me. [b]The other night when I told him I really don’t want to get this huge boat he said, “I don’t care what you want.”[/b]
[b]Plus the lack of sex for 5 years[/b], when I got tired of constantly initiating so just stopped, is a big problem.[b] And the not-infrequent verbal abuse he throws my way is also a major, if not the core, issue.[/b][/quote]

Life is too short to put up with this for another 30-40 years.

Go to the thread on Midlife Concerns and Eldercare where the dad is constantly yelling/snapping at the mom. Let your husband be a grumpy old man on his own time and his own dime.[/quote]

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