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[quote=Anonymous]Op, as the victim of a cheater, I am very empathetic to your need to set the record straight. You certainly do not owe your ex wife any silence. However, I would not engage on social media where your ex wife has the ability to control or influence your comments and others responses to them.  It’s like taking the fight to her battlefield - a big strategic error.

I agree with others who say to unfollow her.  Do you have friends that are mutual to you and her - friendships that you want to maintain for personal or professional reasons?  Tell those people privately and casually in the way that other PPs suggest - that it’s unfortunate you broke up but best for the baby that ex-wife have a chance to work out a relationship with the baby’s birth father. Deliver the message once per person and after that, draw a boundary if your friend mentions  your ex, that you wish her well but you’ve cut ties and aren’t really interested in hearing about her.

You have a right to tell your story, but don’t ever expect that your ex will acknowledge reality or apologize or be rational.  Psychopaths like your ex just create a reality that is in their interest. If they can’t get positive energy, they will feed of your negative energy and attention. Best thing you can do is grey rock her. [/quote]

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