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[quote=Anonymous]If your husband works long hours and you feel like you don't see him now, family life would be abysmal. You would basically be on your own, juggling your job and raising a child. DH and I juggled things together and it was rough for us both career-wise and family-wise. If he wants kids then he might need to look into getting a more family-friendly job if he can. I definitely think you should ask yourself where do you see yourself in 5 years? 10 years? 15 years? When you are older do you see yourself with your husband or with family? If you don't see family anywhere in your future it probably isn't for you. There is a lot of sacrifice and if you feel lukewarm you may end up resenting your husband for convincing you to go for it. That being said if you see family in your future, you probably shouldn't wait. Depending on the nature of your medical problems it may be already difficult for you to get pregnant add 5 more years and the ship might sail completely.[/quote]
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