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Reply to "would you let your teenager's lover sleep over?"
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[quote=Anonymous]My father used to say, "No shacking up until you can provide your own shack." I'm with the PP who spoke about boundaries. Part of being mature enough to have sex is having the ability to say "No." Also being choosy about time, partner and place. And of course contraception etc. I provided all the info but made it clear that it wasn't supposed to happen under my roof until . . . sometime later. I imagine one or both may have still done it a time or two, but I think that's still different from having parents condone it. I've also seen situations in which it looked to me like parents' allowing sleepover boyfriends was putting pressure on girls to do something they really weren't ready for. Better to model saying"No."[/quote]
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