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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Have enough basic respect for the person you married to not lie and cheat on her.  Either try to fix it within the marrage or if you can't, leave.  Imagine what your wife will think of herself if she finds out. Imagine what your kids will think of you or her if they find out.  Think about how this will impact your children's ability to have heathly, trusting relationships as adults if they find out.

Take care of yourself, fine. But don't f*ck it up for everyone around you.  Get a divorce and find someone more compatbale. But don't selfishly think that you having an affair is somehow the best for your relationship or family. That's just you trying to justify what you want. [/quote]

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It destroyed a dear friend of mine…and two families since they were both married.[/quote]

Why is leaving better than cheating? I don't get it. Just keep the family together and take care not to get caught. If you do get caught, it's no different. Not like the wife should be surprised that he wants to get some outside of the marriage. Ridiculous.[/quote]

It’s a lot different.  Cheating makes for a much more acrimonious divorce and more psychological harm to the spouse and kids.[/quote] op here. No I have not intention of cheating. Was venting out loud. But I am a the point where I need to make an ultimatum. Take this problem seriously and let’s talk to someone or let me go outside the marriage. [/quote]

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