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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]43 y/o male. Wife and I have sex at most twice a year and it’s clear she isn’t into it. Honestly she seems grossed out by my simple touch.  She really does
Doesn’t see the issue and won’t talk to counselor. She has told me I should jerk off more of it bothers me. I want to work on it but if she refuses to talk to a professional or even admit there is an issue what can I do? I’m starved for physical affection and it’s bothering more every day. I even googled chemical castration once because my libido was making me so unhappy.

I know people say I should get a divorce. But divorce means sleeping in a different house than my kids, screwing up my finances and moving into a crappy apartment. Plus I’ve got the good job. She would be in a tough spot without me. It feels like a giant punishment for having some normal human desires.

I see enough women on here who have the same problem. It seems like there should be a place where sex starved spouses can met to get some relief.  I would kill for just actually getting to touch someone at this point.

Yes I know it’s a bad option but in my situation they are all has options.

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How old are your kids?

How long has this been going on? Was your relationship different in the beginning?[/quote] in the interest of remaining anonymous I won’t say but it’s a busy time of life for both of them. Sex was great at first. Of course that was during the W Bush administration. She has always been a little weird about sex. We didn’t actually have sex until three months after we started going out which seemed a little weird but I liked her and wanted her to do it when she felt comfortable. Then the sex was great. We couldn’t keep our hands off each other.[/quote]

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