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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Has he articulated what he’s willing to change to address the reasons you broke in the first place?  Have you?  [/quote]

OP here. He’s a little older than me and is ready for marriage and kids. I want to get married but want to wait a couple more years to have kids. This is thy r main issue, but there is also city vs suburbs and which state we would raise our kids in. [/quote]

OP here. He has decided he is willing to wait until I’m ready to have kids. We also realize which state to raise kids in or suburbs vs city is something we can compromise on. I just couldn’t compromise on having kids before I’m ready. [/quote]

Yeah, you haven't actually resolved anything, so it's going to be a no from me for getting back together. These are major things and neither of you is willing to truly compromise. You may love each other, though I am skeptical that you both sound and are acting like people who just want to have somebody vs loving the other. You should find other people.[/quote]

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