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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I love all the people being rude and nasty to OP and telling her to get over stuff.  You are all so kind and forgiving that you don't hold grudges :roll: Because from what you are writing on here you sound not very nice at all. You probably drop insults to people all the time then tell them to not be so sensitive. [/quote]

Actually, I've been through a crap ton of shit in my life including being, called terrible things by family members,s  mercilessly bullied in grade school and college and sexually harassed and bullied at work. Holding onto grudges made me sick, physically and emotionally. Yes, there are some people I  would choose not to see, but I don't inquire about the guest list before a party. I don't let the jerks keep me from seeing people I want to see, I go to the parties and ignore them if for whatever reason it's too much I go home or I stay home if I think someone I can't deal with will be there, I don't invite other people avoid or ignore them too.[/quote]

This sounds like almost exactly what OP said she is doing and people are still hating on her, though. Didn't she say she was just being choosy about which invitations to accept and people were sniffing out that it was about this other person and making a thing of it? I mean you are hating on her but you are describing doing the exact same thing she says she is doing so I don't get it.[/quote]

IT sounds like the opposite of what OP is doing, notice, nowhere does pp mentions schisms with other people or others being dragged into things.[/quote]

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