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[quote=Anonymous]We told both sides many years before kids that we were having Thanksgiving alone. We didn’t give a reason but said we weren’t traveling. Then about two years before Covid, we decided to stop going for Christmas. We have kids now. It was a hard adjustment for our parents, both sides, but it made the holidays so much more pleasant and less stressful for our family. We love our family and see them at other times of the year. The actual holidays are for us now. We have always said people can come spend it with us at our home if they like. The last family member to come for Thanksgiving was about 15 years ago. No one has ever come for Christmas. They still ask us to go there every year. [/quote]
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