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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The look on his face when he was watching his coworker perform karaoke.  She was singing " Fools Rush In".[/quote]

Maybe she’s just a good singer?

Are you still together [/quote]

She is a really good singer, but he looked at her the way he used to look at me, and yes we're still together[/quote]

How heartbreaking. I don’t think I could stay. Did they have an affair?[/quote]

As far as I know, they haven't but I honestly don't want to go looking either to find out, don' think I  could handle it  if he did.[/quote]

Even if he finds that other woman attractive, it doesn't mean he doesn't love you. Maybe there are other pieces to the story. But a person can find other people attractive, or even magnetic, and still love the person they are with. There are probably lots of lovely things about you and your relationship that he loves and couldn't live without. And that can be true even if he finds that singing co-worker attractive.[/quote]

+1 Agree.  Assuming it is just a look/hidden crush, this is not reason to leave your DH.  I have to say, if my husband watched me looking at someone I found attractive, I'm sure that at some points it would be completely noticeable, but in the big picture it means nothing but a passing thought on my part.  However, if your DH and the co-worker are also close friends, I would be a little more concerned even if I didn't think my husband was having a physical affair.  Sometimes its not easy to see when a gradually progressing work friendship is going too far, and while I used to be dubious about the idea of emotional affairs, I get it now and see how even this breach of intimacy can take a toll on a marriage.  So while I wouldn't worry that DH was or is cheating just from that look, I probably would be a little more watchful if they are friends.

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