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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I flat out do not believe that this single insult was the entire basis for this situation. There was tension, offense, something with this person before that.[/quote]

Yes, of course this is true. But it’s like, there is some stuff you don’t say out loud, especially not in front of other people, because you know you can never take it back. Everyone knows this. There are people you have issues with, stuff you think, and you either have to keep it to yourself or deal with the consequences. Like I have deep stuff with my friends that goes way back, and there are things I could say that would straight up destroy them if I said them. Like it would hurt them so deep I’d worry for their mental health. Not even stuff to do with me, just stuff I know about them that they would not want people to know or that they don’t want to face themselves.

No matter how mad I get at them, I’m never going to say that stuff. I can’t hurt people that way, I don’t want to, even when I’m pissed or they are being jerks, because I don’t want to be that way.

But some people do not have that filter. They will get annoyed with you over some dumb thing and come out with the cruelest stuff. And if they know you well enough, they’ll know what buttons to push. For a lot of people it’s similar stuff. Everyone has these vulnerabilities, you know?

Some people just step over that line and are like “what? I’m just being honest.” Like it’s not even about that. There are just things you don’t say if you care about someone. [/quote]

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