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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, as the child of parents who divorced when I was in college, I can tell you this. Please do not make taking care of your soon-to-be-ex your children's responsibility. You are the one who brought this dad into their lives. I truly believe that you should continue to be involved in his care at least as much as you would be for a brother. It's not fair to adult children (esp. young adult children) to have to look after a mentally ill (or just very difficult) parent when they are not the ones who chose him in the first place.[/quote] His parents failed him, his siblings failed him, I’m sure Op tried to get him help. Maybe even his kids did to. It’s game over. He’ll have to budget his money and energy wisely, himself.[/quote]
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