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Reply to "Leaving. Advice for how to minimize impact on college aged kids"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do what you need to do for you. It’s the oxygen mask metaphor. Put on your mask before you help others with theirs.[/quote] Except it's more like she's not going to help the kids, she's going to have them deal with their dad without her.[/quote] They are adults! They have to forge their own relationships in life regardless of parents' marriage status.[/quote] It's not "forging a relationship", it's caring for an elderly adult with a personality disorder. That's what she's sticking them with, because she doesn't want to do it. Sorry but "My husband is super horrible so I am justified in leaving, and also this will be easy for the kids to deal with on their own" doesn't make any sense.[/quote] People ditch toxic a-hole family members all the time. Stop the guilt trip. Daddy is gonna have to wipe himself or find a new victim to mistreat. #BreakTheCycle[/quote]
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