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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don’t think anything can really give you equanimity after your husband runs off with his ten years younger student and is now introducing your kids to her, your kids who don’t yet know that she was the AP or that the divorce was because of infidelity. She’s 42 and they were together for like 15 years. The OW is 30. He is a seriously immature person and I don’t see a grown up in their relationship, but it won’t matter bc he is independently wealthy. She will have kids, my friends kids will have half siblings, it just sucks to lose creative control of your family.[/quote]

You never have as much control over your family as you think She does however have 100% control over her attitude. Sure it was shitty but she can move forward and have an awesome lif if she so chooses.[/quote]

She can have a great life but the kids are gonna be f’d up. [/quote]

That's their choice to be effed up. My dad cheated and split up the family and I'm no more effed up than my friends who have parents who remained happily married for years and less effed up than the kids whose parents stayed together or were miserable or who split and spent the years post-divorce battling each other.  A large part of how messed up they will be is how the adults in their life act their mom being miserable and her bestie telling them that they have no choice but to be effed up isn't going to work in their favor.[/quote]

I doubt you are not f’d up. F’d people always compare thrr we mark each to their most f’d up friends.[/quote]

I'm not effed up sorry that disappoints you and your world view that cheaters are doomed to screw everyone up for all eternity and everyone related to them must live a life of misery.
let's talk about you, you must be pretty effed up to be so invested in your friend's personal life that you are upset her ex isn't receiving sufficient karma ( I mean you've posted 2 threads on this alreayd pretty freaking obsessive), it's also telling that you seem to want the kids and your friends to be effed up, you want me, someone, you don't know to be effed up. That makes you a pretty effed-up and toxic person.

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Oh come on. No parent is perfect and we are all impacted by the consequences of their actions. I have good relationships and I’m a pretty good mom and a functional human being but I know I have issues that I need to process. [/quote]

I didn't say my parents are perfect. I said I'm not a uniquely effed up person. If it makes you feel better to believe you are irrevocably damaged by your childhood and want to process that until your 70 go right ahead, not everyone  feels the same way.[/quote]

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