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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I get that your friend is devastated, hurt, betrayed and she is watching him run off to be happy while she is alone however she isn't helping herself by becoming bitter.

I read a great saying ages ago, that was something similar to 'bitterness, resentment or anger is like drinking poison but expecting the other person to get sick'.

At some stage your friend needs to help herself otherwise she will drown in her bitterness.  She needs to focus on herself and turn away from them and what is happening in their lives.  Its hard but she needs to.

Perhaps when she is ready if she stops looking at them and really looks at her marriage she may look back and see it wasn't what she thought it was.  Then perhaps she can look at her ex and see who he really is.  It will eventually hopefully look really unappealing to her.[/quote]

This is true but it doesn’t mean that I can’t feel sorry for people who have gotten screwed. I feel the same way about people struggling because of all kinds of harm. And it’s really easy from the outside to say to people who are still bitter about an abusive mother or an absentee father or whatever that they need to let it go. Of course they do but I don’t blame them for struggling with it.

This isn’t obsessing over it, it’s just having an opinion and feelings about it when the topic comes up. [/quote]

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