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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op here. I'm real, this is real. Pp who said something about a misalignment of values... You're spot on. And the covid vaccine is one of them.

I can't and won't just take kids to get vaccinated on my own. It'd be like an act of war. I'd rather decide to divorce and do that before acting unilaterally because that's one of the things that's aggravating me about his decisions.

I personally do think he's gotten sucked into the conspiracy theories but of course he would say he's done his own research/financial interests mean the info we're getting is tainted/etc. He is smart, educated, intellectual. We just do not agree and have a hard time respecting each other's opinions, for obvious reasons... So how do you make a marriage like this work? Is it doomed not to?[/quote]

No, it can't work. The issue isn't vaccines; it's that he's an oppositional, disagreeable person; or a person who cannot otherwise cope with the normal responsibilities and expecations of life. The two men I know who refuse to vax are this way.

And, your DH is operating unilaterally by refusing to vaccinate.  Why can't you as well? Do you think he would hit you?  
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