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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How old is your kid that you are currently gunning for a pro career and s/he isn’t in high school yet? Is this typical? Not snarky - just curious.[/quote] I think it is typical. Soccer is a young man's game. Many kids get signed by the time they're 16 or 17. If you're 19 or 20 and you haven't been signed to a contract you are facing very long odds against success. And it's pretty obvious by 13 or 14 which kids have any sort of chance of making it, and - more to the point - if the kid hasn't set himself the goal by this point, he's not going to put in the work necessary to make it. We could have a separate discussion about whether chasing such a dream is sensible or realistic - but if that is the dream then it starts before high school or probably not at all.[/quote] I am the poster that the question was directed at and what the above says seems to make sense because I have also been curious too, when other parents knew their kid had procareer potential. I have a few kids and I can only say that about one kid who is currently pre-ECNL age. He has the skills, athleticism, motivation (playing soccer is what makes him happiest at the moment), and discipline (perfectionist, practices on his own, always eager to do and learn more). He could dribble and control the ball very well before he was 2, almost like an instinct. He also has soccer IQ which he uses effectively as part of a team. And yes, he's very good according to coaches, teammates, other soccer parents, etc. We assess every year whether he has the same interest and motivation because I can't imagine going through travel soccer and all this stuff unless my kid was already talented and had the motivation and discipline to keep on going. As to my point in a previous post, it definitely isn't worth it just for a college scholarship. [/quote]
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