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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I'm in a social group with four other couples. The men hang out regularly, as do the women, and sometimes in a group. However, there's one woman out of the group with whom I'm not especially close, but we get along well when we see each other in these larger settings.

Last weekend, I asked these friends to hang out and everyone was busy but didn't say doing what.

Then my husband saw the guy "group" last night, and men being men and having no clue about social stuff, were open about the fun their wives had at this woman's birthday party. I guess she had a dinner at an outdoor restaurant and invited every woman in the group except me (and a few other women outside this group came too).

I am really pretty hurt. I'm inclusive and friendly. Would it have killed her to invite me? It just feels like a weird slight, especially as I include her in every group thing, and we all hang out as couples as well.

What would you think and how would you feel? I cannot tell if I'm being babyish or if I'm right to feel miffed.[/quote]

Why do women (largely, this is women) do sh-- like this? I don't understand it. In every stage of life (from MS through adulthood). There's always one or 2 a--holes who cannot bother to be inclusive. If they are all part of a group that meets regularly and was not invited - the only one- that's a pretty deliberate snub and absolute a-hole behavior. One more would not have killed her. If she had / has an issue with OP, she should out it to her instead of making things awkward and engaging in queen bee behavior.

If you're a woman and do sh-- like this, you suck. And if you're the complicit friends, you also suck. Grow up.[/quote]

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