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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would feel hurt to (because this suggests that the birthday celebrant is not as close to you as the others). But there is really not much you can do about that. It sounds like she was not your fave anyway. I would NOT be hurt because your other friends did not tell you. It is awkward to be invited to something when another is not. It is NOT their place to reveal that to the uninvited person. They did not want to hurt you or have to discuss the inviter's reasoning. Just move forward knowing that you are not among the birthday girl's closest friends.Continue to invite the people whose company you enjoy to events. It is part of life. But your feelings are understandable.[/quote] I would feel hurt, too, but for the exact opposite reasons. It's fine for the birthday girl not to invite someone to whom she isn't that close, but it's not ok for the friends not to be upfront about it, which makes it awkward and weird when it doesn't have to be. [/quote]
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