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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As a person who has tremendous difficulty organizing their thought and emotions constructively this is relatable. I have gone silent for long periods when I get that everything I tried to say would make things worse, not help the other person, be regretted, and come out super confused. I try not to be self centered but sometimes it takes so much effort to get there that I cannot sustain seeing the other person’s perspective and I go quiet because I just can’t don’t the right words. [/quote] No one should be in a relationship with you. This is so unhealthy. I don't know if OP's boyfriend is similar to you or not, but I do know that you are, in fact, self-centered, and that your conflict-style is unacceptable in a relationship. [/quote] Unkind comment, PP. This person is aware of his/her limitations and presumably, could articulate such to a partner so they could manage these moments in a constructive way. We all have our stuff and being aware of it is 90% of the battle.[/quote]
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