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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]As a rule, I don't believe any posters on this site, male or female, who lead off with "he's a jerk"/"she has a bad temper" and then upgrade to "diagnosed NPD/BDP" in the second or third post.  Just feels like trying to pull the crowd back to your side with an escalation of the "facts."

That said, if your biggest problem with your STBX is that they say things you don't know how to respond to like "we should be civil" then you're doing fine.  Agree and move on.  Stop trying to win arguments, stop trying to have her agree with your assessment of her character.  Keep it short, keep it civil, and keep it moving.  And keep your kids in the front of your mind, because eventually she will be in the rearview mirror but they should always be in your life.  [/quote]
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1+.  OP, I think PPs are jumping on you because you seem to be working so hard to right wrongs, or somehow come out of this as the "good guy." But put aside who is wrong or right, or whether someone is being civil or not, WHY DO YOU CARE?  You are (hopefully) ending this relationship.  Your partner's tone or comments are irrelevant.  Just say "yes" or "nope" or "I'll need to talk to my lawyer." If you are over this you are over this.  But you don't sound over it.[/quote]

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