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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Im a woman in my 30s- Lately, I’ve had a few guys trying to date me and they have blue collar jobs i-e lots of mail delivery guys, work at restaurant and so on. I have a hangup on this as I know I probably make 5 times what they do and Im not sure we’d have anything to talk sbout. Would like to hear from people who have been in these situations, yey or nay? Would you recommend? Why or why not? I am crazy for just wanting to date people with a similar professional/financial background? [/quote]

Do you think they are trying to date lots of women or have they taken the time to have conversations with you and based on those conversations they want to date you? If he’s just shooting his shot, I would probably say no.  But if you’ve actually had enough conversation to get to know them as a person and vice versa, you should have enough info to know if you have enough in common for a first date.[/quote]

Some I met randomly so I am not sure. Others I talk to on dating apps, and eventually find out what they do for a living and it gives me pause, that’s why I was wondering if other women have been in that situation before[/quote]

pp here.  If you meet them in person thru a hobby, through friends, or just organically and have enough of a conversation that you think you would like I get to know them more then yes.  If it’s strictly online then I would lean towards not.    Also, whatever the situation, make sure work hours are compatible with what you want out of dating life.  Some people are fine dating someone that travels a lot for work or works nights and weekends and for other people that’s not what they want.[/quote]

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