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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I have two friends like this. Both in their 40s-50s. They just want sex, which they aren't getting in their marriage. They still want to "grow old" with their wife and kids. I'm guessing the end game is their libido will die down in a few years (or no women will want them), then they'll cut if off and go back to their pre-cheating life.[/quote]

I know a few that are having sex in their marriage (they have said as much), but they all cheat in their circle.  From all appearances, they seem to really love their wives.  Their wives are pretty, fun-loving, have careers, etc.  Midlife crisises are strange.

Most cheaters like this have something internal going on. Issues that having nothing to do with their spouse.   Knowing the wives, I can’t imagine any of them would stay married if they found out what was happening behind their backs.  They definitely would not be okay with it.

Maybe I’m naive.  I read 65% of long marriages will have infidelity at some point.[/quote]

If I injected you with the testosterone men have, then had your husband deny you sex entirely or limit you to once a month pity sex, you would understand how simple this is for men. I promise you [/quote]

Oh, and by the way, I understand why this is so offense for some to read. Some men do cheat who have a sexually generous spouse at home and their is nothing their wife could do differently. Monogamy is hard under good circumstances, impossible if not done right.

If you tell me you were a loving and sexually generous wife and got cheated on anyway, I believe you. I know many men like your husband[/quote]

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