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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, you should see someone to address your deep lack of empathy and compassion.  By your own account, your stepdaughter went through a traumatic childhood.  She may have mental health issues of her own that it doesn’t sound like anyone bothered to investigate and treat.  She was raped.  And on top of it she has to deal with a stepmother who resents the fact that she won’t disappear from the earth (and I guarantee, you are not hiding that from her nearly as well as you would like to think).  You are part of the reason the family dynamic is such a mess.  Fix your own shit before dating to pass judgment on others for theirs.[/quote]

I’m sure OP would have more sympathy if the SC hadn’t tried to put OP in jail!

As an outsider, I do feel bad for the SC. It’s not OP’s fault, but I’m sure growing up in a broken home was not great for the SC. OP, you should definitely go to therapy to figure out how to deal with your DH pushing the relationship on you. You want to maintain your boundaries but also not resent your DH.[/quote]

If SC had not tried to put OP in jail would OP at least be able to acknowledge that SC was raped?[/quote]

Can you not read?  SC has lied about many things, so OP isn't even sure if she's telling the truth about it or is just making it up again.  You're hung up on this. Get your own therapy.  JFC.[/quote]

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