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[quote=Anonymous]I am guessing that OP you are approaching this as if you are being asked to share in the decision when really what your GF is looking for is a sounding board. She feels confident to in her deciding to do these renovations and probably assumed she could weigh options with you/your father - as she’s identified you both as having some experience she values. What I think you are not doing is seeing her as capable from the start. She’s clearly not still deciding IF she’s doing this work but you approach this as if there’s still time to stop her. You can have all the opinions in the world but it really doesn’t sound like she asked you to weigh in on the one thing she didn’t ask you about. I find it really insulting that you and your father feel that kind of ownership in how she conducts her business. [/quote]
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