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Reply to "“He didn’t do this the whole time you were gone”: is it me???"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, just love on your kid. He may not be the most polite and well-behaved child. You may miss out on a few playdates. But those are short term consequences. You have a long-term goal here. [/quote] A poorly behaved child who is coddled and never disciplined by his mother turns into a poorly behaved adult. You know discipline means to teach, right? It doesn't mean to punish.[/quote] That’s really not true. I can show you some articles saying that’s not spending time with your kids, not communicating with them, getting angry out of nowhere, and harshly punishing your kids leads to poorly behaved adults. Can you find me one that says that too many hugs is the problem? [/quote] Np here. I’ve seen it in action. Really nice moms with nightmare kids because they don’t have it in them to put their foot down on bad behaviors. Read op’s post above. It’s understandable given her upbringing that she didn’t have good parenting modeled for her. But swinging the opposite way and letting her son get away with acting poorly isn’t an improvement. Op, look for some parenting classes. You need help. That’s okay, a lot of us do. You didn’t experience good parenting. You need to learn how to do it. [/quote]
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