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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.

DS is a gem at Sunday school, his classes, and with his peers. He’s generally friendly and listens well when on play dates.

With us:
-“I’m not putting on my shoes because you didn’t do X when I asked you to do it”.

He’s VERY disrespectful to us. I would’ve gotten my butt walloped for talking how he does.

-“you said ‘come up for dinner’ and dinner isn’t even on the table!”

Again, just simply rude in a way that isn’t appropriate I don’t think.

-fusses/tantrums/meltdowns: “Larla is ALWAYS first on her bike” screams, stomps feet

We went to see a family friend yesterday and he didn’t like the small gift she gave him so he threw it and screamed.

I know exactly what “Instagram parenting” is, and yeah we’ve done it. It clearly doesn’t work for this kid.

We need rules and boundaries but nothing works.

Also, yes, we are playing the long game. I don’t like my parents. They were overseers and didn’t engage with us. I want a relationship with my child, forever. But I also don’t want him to be a brat.[/quote]

Op, these things are not okay.  There’s space in between a butt wallop and ignoring bad behaviour.  Try reading “1,2,3 Magic” and see if it might help, though I think most start with it earlier than 6.  You need to do something. His behaviour is not okay.  [/quote]

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