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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I'm a man and my spouse is woman. [b]A highly intelliget, highly educated (Ivy undergrad and grad) [/b]woman but [b]I'm losing my mind[/b].

It's been like this for years but I lost it this morning over a half dozen things we needed and neither had time to clean up. Then [b]she played victim[/b] that I was upset by a problem she caused that affected me and our kids.[/quote]

Have you considered that your highly intelligent wife might be doing this on purpose - to make you lose your mind?

I dated someone like this. He later admitted he thinks he’s a sociopath.  We exchanged text messages to meet on Monday, he didn’t show up and then said “I thought we said Wednesday!”  He “forgot” my birthday (which I had reminded him of the day before), then claimed he’d spent the day comforting an old friend whose wife has died of cancer.  I asked him to wash my pillowcase with his things so I could have a reminder of his scent. He said that was so romantic, then when he finally gave it back it was crumpled and musty. Also he claimed he doesn’t wear deodorant, yet all summer long that we dated he smelled fresh and never had any body odor. Then when things went south, literally the last time we saw each other, he had strong B.O.  Total mindf*k and totally on purpose.

At best this was passive-aggressive behavior to punish me or keep me in line. At worst, he simply enjoyed seeing me confused, disappointed and frustrated.  Any of this resonate with you OP?  
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