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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I coach girls U9 soccer and last year we played against a team that had a [b]transsexual female[/b], [i]it was very clear he was a he[/i] (no he is not a he, she is a transgirl). They were in 2nd last year, 3rd now. We played against the team [b]she [/b]was on last week, girls are obviously older, with a bigger field and [b]she [/b]was on this team again. Getting a lot of noticeably encouraging cheers, Went by the same name as a popular flower with a lot of L's in it. [i]I'm not there yet on my understanding of parents that segregate a child that early to be honest[/i] (I don't even know what the f you are talking about a transgril is playing with girls there is no segregation). But it's not up to me, nor do they need to provide me an explanation. I just haven't seen 7/8 year olds mistreat a kid because [b]she [/b]believes [b]she [/b]is a girl trapped in a boy's body (you probably could just say trans). [/quote] There are so many things wrong with your post and sadly I think you were trying to be nice.[/quote] Please educate me.[/quote] fixed it for you[/quote] missed one[/quote] Cool thanks. I was aware that the pronouns were probably wrong and this would be triggering for you. That's helpful, thanks. Maybe you could also see the point of view from people experiencing this for the very first time. Coaches are put in a new position as well. [/quote]\ I'm not triggered, I actually said it's sad that you thought you were being nice and your homophobia is so ingrain you put it on full display and did not even know it. I'm sorry if you are triggered by pointing out where you were socialized to be homophobic and to use language that not only is just wrong, but also could hurt others. You did this on a thread for a woman who is in fear for her child's well being. It is not the job of LGBTQ children or their parents to educate coaches, if you are not qualified, don't coach. Ask the league to provide training.[/quote] Your post is a great example of why LGBTQ kids aren't more accepted. Talk about clueless.[/quote]
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