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[quote=Anonymous]Op, I have not read the entire thread. Can you say to him, look, before you blow up our lives and affect our children so profoundly, can you please see a therapist? A lot is happening, we don't know what's going to happen but let's try to just slooooow down. Any reputable therapist is going to encourage the same as well as trying to engage his mind in exploring what he is thinking. A good one will see it as a version of an affair and he will be treated accordingly (meaning challenged on thinking through his acting out, what he hopes and imagines his life will be, etc) His family history and the possibility of his own past trauma will be explored too. Good luck to you, I am sorry this is happening. [/quote]
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