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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Disagree with the quote.  I agree with the idea that no one is 100% guilty and no one is 100% innocent, but in an affair scenario the cheating spouse has a severely compromised moral compass.  The other spouse may be depressed, ill, poor at communicating, but two wrongs don't make a right.  You should have learned that in elementary school.

[b]If your marriage is bad, END IT.  Don't cheat.[/b]  [/quote]

I love these platitudes!  There is no "I" in team!

Back to the real world, when there are children, and school districts, and families with health issues, and health insurance issues, and economic considerations, 401ks, the idea of "just end it!" is totally meaningless.

It's far, far less messy to just find a way to get discreet needs met outside the marriage, if sex is the only issue.  The idea you need to blow up your kids world as the go to response is backwards.  Keep your family intact, go do what you need to do if your spouse becomes unwilling to do it.[/quote]

I agree. [/quote]

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