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[quote=Anonymous]I think it's a common dynamic for older sisters to tease the youngest for being a "spoiled baby." My sisters did this, we're in the same generation and same parents. BUT, if your sisters are STILL doing this, I might speak up and point out the advantages that they enjoyed (leave out the deceased father inheritance though).

It doesn't make much sense to compare yourself to your sisters. They are an entirely different generation, different genetics, different father, different upbringing. I'm Gen X and I get kinda mad about the boomers, but really, what are you going to do? Your sisters have what, 10-15 years on you, that they have built their lives. You might be surprised to see where you could be in 10-15 years.

This resentment means something, but it means something about YOU, not about your sisters. You're unhappy with your current situation and wish it were better, you think you deserve better than what you have. That has nothing to do with them. So, you figure out a plan to make your life what you want it to be, and work toward that. You'll get to a point where you won't even believe that you were ever jealous of your sisters. [/quote]

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