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[quote=Anonymous]I'm in my 40s and don't think of myself as getting hit on a lot, but I get catcalled/harassed with some frequency on the street, as well as "hit on" in a nicer way (still wildly inappropriate IMO). If I'm out in public without my husband and kid (and sometimes with my kid), I'll get hit on sometimes in restaurants and so on. I've been sent flowers by strangers, though not often! I get hit on via DM on Facebook by RL acquaintances. When I worked in any sort of public setting, especially social/food service, it definitely also happened.

I got married very young in part, I think, to avoid it, but if it's worked, it hasn't worked that well. I always wear my wedding ring, etc. Doesn't seem to matter that much.

I don't know why. I know I'm attractive and very curvy, but I'm often dressed a bit schlumpy, I'm kind of socially awkward, don't make a lot of eye contact and almost never give off a flirty vibe. I've assumed for years I get an average amount of this kind of attention, but that may not be true. I just don't know how to handle it and don't want to. [/quote]

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