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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’d say back out, but still pay your part of the Airbnb [/quote]

This makes 0 sense. Let $800 go down the drain to just not attend? 
If they can spend this much money and hire a private driver for $590 a person like they’re celebrities then an extra $100-$200 per person will be nothing for them. [/quote]

Unfortunately I agree with PP that it would be wrong to back out to the airBnB.  OP knew and agreed to that cost.

You could always go to Napa and just not participate in the wine tours/driving excursions.  Just enjoy the estate and pool. [/quote]

She didn’t know. She rsvpd and that’s when the organizer told them where they would be staying and then told the cost. The organizer worked backwards and was inconsiderate. That shouldn’t be on OP.[/quote]

Where did OP think she was going to stay in California wine country for cheaper? Come on. [/quote]

Who thinks that they’re going to stay at a place for $1800 and get $590 pp personal driver? That’s the cheaper. They don’t need those things for a bachelorette party. [/quote]

Anyone who isn’t stupid? Where are you going to find a cheaper place to stay in Napa? And transportation is going to be pricey unless you want to go the designated driver route, which OP is turning up her nose at too. The was obviously going to be pricey at the first mention of “wine country,” which was before the formal RSVP.[/quote]

Did you see that OP hasn’t even ever been to California? I have no idea what a 4 day extravaganza in wine country would cost and I’ve been to Sonoma![/quote]

OP is a grown-up. When she got the formal invitation for California wine country, she should have done some research before saying yes. [/quote]

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